tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post7362532571758731602..comments2024-03-04T17:59:07.208-06:00Comments on Liberty or Death: Saying No to OkraBethany Carsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comBlogger91125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-57740014528783164442015-02-07T20:34:36.051-06:002015-02-07T20:34:36.051-06:00My parents also grew and liked okra while my opini...My parents also grew and liked okra while my opinion of it has always been more like you described. I like how your writing takes something ordinary and makes it interesting, then takes it a step farther to share valuable life lessons. Great quote by Margaret Thatcher as well.Wayne Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02493147858706832394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-75661805635808619102015-02-04T12:04:28.265-06:002015-02-04T12:04:28.265-06:00What a tricky cousin! I know the Bible says to fo...What a tricky cousin! I know the Bible says to forgive our enemies, but sometimes the hardest part is forgiving our friends! ;) Glad you survived that new type of French fries! :DBethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-46302691308148299302015-02-04T12:00:08.411-06:002015-02-04T12:00:08.411-06:00Thank you for visiting, Autumn! It's always a...Thank you for visiting, Autumn! It's always a pleasure to meet a new blogging friend!Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-49431072177664308072015-02-04T06:58:33.632-06:002015-02-04T06:58:33.632-06:00i agree with you 2,000% on okra...never gonna eat ...i agree with you 2,000% on okra...never gonna eat it again. my cousin tricked me into trying it when we were about 14-15 years old. he told me it was a new kind of french frie. ha! at the time a kentucky fried chicken in chicago was including it in their meals. last time was more than enough for me.marshylnerd.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09083187354247484716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-65134832516212919992015-02-03T18:07:40.544-06:002015-02-03T18:07:40.544-06:00Hey Bethany! I'm new to your blog, but it'...Hey Bethany! I'm new to your blog, but it's amazing. Especially that quote at the end, it's something I could definitely put into practice more in my life. This was a great post :) <br /><br />autumn <br />autumnreadsandwritesallday.blogspot.comautumnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10338919380899247929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-11592377181383514992015-02-02T11:28:14.555-06:002015-02-02T11:28:14.555-06:00Sounds like you did a good job raising your daught...Sounds like you did a good job raising your daughter, and she is doing a good job raising your grandson. Blessings to your family!<br /><br />Ah, yes! I will most gladly let you have my share of okra! :)Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-17650164624380496852015-02-02T11:26:46.364-06:002015-02-02T11:26:46.364-06:00I can understand that. I can understand that. Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-69215266718704524562015-02-02T11:26:17.391-06:002015-02-02T11:26:17.391-06:00Glad someone likes it! You can have my share ;)Glad someone likes it! You can have my share ;)Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-70643281570379568982015-02-02T11:26:00.326-06:002015-02-02T11:26:00.326-06:00You are an example in self-control and perseveranc...You are an example in self-control and perseverance, Joyful, and I hope your suffering continues to pays off for you. ;) Glad to hear that you've been able to come to enjoy most vegetables. Florence Ditlow once said, "Through enjoyment, we endure."Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-24326324539345623192015-02-02T11:20:32.642-06:002015-02-02T11:20:32.642-06:00Thanks Lindy! Glad you won't be going out of ...Thanks Lindy! Glad you won't be going out of your way to get okra. ;)Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-28741059545005580262015-02-02T11:19:31.828-06:002015-02-02T11:19:31.828-06:00I do have two sisters and one brother. Green oliv...I do have two sisters and one brother. Green olives, aren't on my list of favorites either...though I will take the black ones anytime. I'm glad your family and friends have accepted your choice to be a vegan. I have a dear close relative who is a vegetarian, and it's always so sweet and appreciated when hosts/hostesses take the time to make sure they serve at least some foods she can eat.Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-43273834627076949392015-02-02T11:16:08.685-06:002015-02-02T11:16:08.685-06:00Thank you for the story! It takes a lot of love, ...Thank you for the story! It takes a lot of love, self-control, and sometimes an iron stomach to be a missionary. I pray the Lord blesses those who take on the challenge.Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-63740161846445716252015-02-02T09:57:12.263-06:002015-02-02T09:57:12.263-06:00Fantastic post, Bethany! The most difficult thing ...Fantastic post, Bethany! The most difficult thing to us was to instill in our daughter the sense that she should march to her own drummer (and to let the drummer be God), and we hope to also do so for our grandson. We were not faithful in our church attendance when our daughter was a pre-teen and teen, and in that we failed her and ourselves, but she never "followed the crowd" in any way. She's an independent spirit, and thankfully, a good Christian woman. Our grandson is barely 13, and has a world of temptations ahead of him, but he too has an independent spirit. He already speaks up for Christ and for his political beliefs and against things like evolution, when at school. I am proud of him, but know we have to stay in prayer! <br /><br />By the way, love fried okra....but you don't have to. More for me! :-)A Colorful Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06890388727784255219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-20708508547801065782015-02-01T07:21:38.972-06:002015-02-01T07:21:38.972-06:00I had never eaten okra until 1966 when I went to U...I had never eaten okra until 1966 when I went to U of Georgia, never became a fan. Tom The Backroads TravellerTomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04082494067802628837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-15112170498233156112015-01-31T07:41:01.984-06:002015-01-31T07:41:01.984-06:00This southern girl loves okra!This southern girl loves okra!Janey and Co.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14263426600052174272noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-80468521164187210082015-01-31T02:47:26.761-06:002015-01-31T02:47:26.761-06:00Hi Bethany, there are many vegetables I never like...Hi Bethany, there are many vegetables I never liked. But I keep trying them because they are good for me. Most things I've come to enjoy. But I do agree that one should never do things just to please man. Your papa has taught you a wise lesson :-)Joyfulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09956413632864588646noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-57089650391703373832015-01-30T20:47:36.307-06:002015-01-30T20:47:36.307-06:00I'm not sure my comment went through since I f...I'm not sure my comment went through since I forgot to click on the 'prove you're not a robot' box. :( If this is a duplicate, feel free to delete it.<br /><br />I am not a fan of okra. Tried it once and it was too slimy for my liking. I understand it is supposed to be a good thickener for soup. No matter, I don't plan on buying any. :D<br /><br />Your papa is a wise man, and that is a great quote by former P.M. Thatcher.<br /><br />LindyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-22531575832383478072015-01-30T11:13:53.736-06:002015-01-30T11:13:53.736-06:00I've never tasted okra. Now, I'm curious ...I've never tasted okra. Now, I'm curious :) "Gently honest" is the expression that resonates most for me in this post. Words to live by, I think. The picture in my mind of you and your siblings growing up is a lovely one (not sure if you have brothers, but remember reading of two sisters). Olives are at the top of my "yucky taste" list (it's a short one). It would be painful to be forced to eat them. And, I'm lucky that, as the lone vegan among my family members and friends, I've never been made to feel awkward or guilty about that choice. All to say, I agree with your papa :) Black Jack's Carolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18436115876996209227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-45268509335296419752015-01-29T23:18:31.242-06:002015-01-29T23:18:31.242-06:00Your missionary story reminds me of another one. M...Your missionary story reminds me of another one. Missionaries to North Africa told us about how the national drink of their country was coffee with rancid butter. In this case they really did need to drink it because every time they were in people's homes they were served this drink, which at first nauseated them. They did not want to offend the people they wanted to win for Christ by refusing the hospitality. But after living there for some time they developed a taste for it and came to love it. This story stuck with me for 50 years, and while I've never needed to imitate this kind of graciousness, it has made me thankful that I am able to avoid almost all the time those foods I don't like. Thank you for sharing your father's lesson.gretchenjoannahttp://www.gretchenjoanna.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-71623059904214440512015-01-29T15:36:29.530-06:002015-01-29T15:36:29.530-06:00Enjoy your vacation, Margie!Enjoy your vacation, Margie!Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-16550101637104437232015-01-29T15:36:09.898-06:002015-01-29T15:36:09.898-06:00Your adventures in India sound fascinating! Your adventures in India sound fascinating! Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-19158668009935342462015-01-29T15:35:18.061-06:002015-01-29T15:35:18.061-06:00Thanks Tori! I'm reminded of a story my mothe...Thanks Tori! I'm reminded of a story my mother told me about a missionary friend who was served a food that, in the culture of the country where she was, was considered a delicacy. She didn't like it, so she only ate a little. As a result, she had to eat the left-overs the next day--and the next. Finally she decided to get it over with and eat it all. The natives saw her eat it all, and said, "Oh, she likes it so much!" So they made a new batch for her the next day. Saying "yes" once may seem easy, but it often has undesired consequences! :)Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-58297520106443223132015-01-29T15:31:53.926-06:002015-01-29T15:31:53.926-06:00That is a good idea! Have a great day as well.That is a good idea! Have a great day as well.Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-42080710504186105202015-01-29T15:31:31.538-06:002015-01-29T15:31:31.538-06:00I think he is. :)I think he is. :)Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7376485905771945684.post-7939964139633740062015-01-29T15:31:17.179-06:002015-01-29T15:31:17.179-06:00For many people it probably is. I have tried it p...For many people it probably is. I have tried it prepared a variety of ways, but have not liked any of them. Have a beautiful day as well!Bethany Carsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583914285773271009noreply@blogger.com